Thursday, May 23, 2013

Something New

I recently stumbled upon DD Domestic Discipline. I can't believe I'd never heard of it before! Well i guess i have, i just never thought about it being applied to an adult relationship. Its like a spark has ignited inside of me and I must figure out where this blazing trail is attempting to lead me! I have a million things to say and I am new at this so forgive me if my thoughts are scrambled and random ;)

Where to start? How to start? I have been doing a lot of reading on line and have found some quite useful information but I don't know anyone who participates in this sort of lifestyle so.......??????yeah

So many things about myself are starting to make sense.... my seemingly pointless relationships, the reason none of them have worked out, my stronger and stronger need to feel more dominant (not that I like it), the strained relationship with my Father, my lack of respect for most men, the love/hate relationship i had with my mother growing up. I'm telling you its like a light bulb has come on in this brain of mine finally!

Ok so more soul searching in later blogs but for now to organize my purpose for blogging currently.
~ Learn more about DD and explore my thoughts and feelings with it.
~ Keep a record of my thoughts and feelings as I am on this journey, also to in time see how far I have come.
~ Discover my need for discipline and how to submit.

Well there you have it.....Let the journey begin!!!!!


  1. Welcome! I'm still exploring the whole dd idea, probably on the edge of taking the plunge soon. I'm a big ol' complicated soul do nothing I write makes much sense to anybody but me. And even then it's iffy! I've found it to be very cathartic to write. I didn't expect anyone to find me but Bonnie found me with my first few days.

  2. Hey Star Shine! Welcome to blogland :) I know it has really helped me organize my thoughts (sometimes even myself!) so I think you're in the right place to be doing that. I look forward to reading more about your journey.

  3. It sounds like these thoughts have been filling a reservoir through time and now the floodgates have opened!
    It's wonderful to see you're collecting your thoughts, researching and preparing a plan & process forward :)
    Welcome to blogland Star Shine!

  4. Welcome to the blogging community, Star Shine. There's no doubt in my mind that you'll find plenty of support from the wonderful people around the blogosphere.

    I look forward to reading about your journey into the domestic discipline lifestyle. Best of luck to you!

    -- Clint

  5. welcome to blog land Star


  6. Hi Star! Welcome to blogging.